Take a step up...

Do you always have that one friend who always tries to out do everyone else in the group when you guys go out? Haha, well I do. Are you tired of being looked at second or third behind everyone else? Well maybe it's time for you to become a little more adventurous when it comes to your wardrobe and take a step out of your comfort zone.

Try something daring, but something that still exudes your personality. 5 essentials that you will always need are: The dress, shoes, a clutch, earrings, and make up. A bracelet and a necklace are optional. Just make sure that they don't take away from the dress, which should be the center of attention (and maybe sometimes the shoes).

I just have a few rules (as always):

• The dress should flatter your figure, and fit properly
• Your make up should be sophisticated, not scary. 
• The shoes should be cute but comfortable. It's not sexy to have your heels in your hands after an hour. 
• A clutch is a small evening bag. A tote is not (please leave it at home or in the car). 
• Don't over do it on the perfume. A lingering fragrance is best, not one that suffocates people. 

Keep these tips in mind next time you're shopping or getting dressed to go out with your friends. Hopefully they help. Have fun and be safe. (=

Out and about by ashleykab featuring a longsleeve dress

3 color rule...

I have gotten quite a few people come up to me and ask me how I get dressed in the morning. Honestly, I simply put on clothes that are suitable for the weather, make me feel comfortable, and is appropriate for the occasion. When I go to work, I have to dress business casual. I am at work 5/7 days of the week, so that's what my closet mostly consists of. What's the point in buying something that you can't wear on a regular basis?

I already talked about building your wardrobe, so you should already have a few items that you are comfortable with. I have this rule about wearing 3 colors. If you do not have an out standing sense of fashion, stick to this rule and you'll never go wrong. Think of something that you want to wear that day(this requires you to know what's in your closet). Find items that complement that piece, but stays within the 3 color rule.

versitile by ashleykab featuring kenneth jay lane jewelry